Getting Ready Photos
Getting Ready Photos: How to Organize Your Morning (and Flat Lay) for Beautiful, Relaxed Shots
The getting ready part of your wedding day is more than just hair, makeup, and putting on outfits — it’s the calm before everything begins. It’s quiet nerves, happy tears, and little moments with your closest people. From a photography point of view, it’s also where we start to build the visual story of your day.
If you’re wondering how to prep for those photos (and what the heck a flat lay even is), this guide’s for you.
Here’s everything you need to know to keep the morning smooth, stress-free, and photo-friendly.
1. Choose a Space With Natural Light
Light is everything. When possible, try to get ready in a space with big windows and neutral walls. It doesn’t have to be fancy — just bright and clean. The more natural light we have, the more flattering and true-to-life your photos will be.
If you're in a hotel or Airbnb, tidying one corner of the room (or asking a bridesmaid to help) can make a huge difference in keeping the background clean for photos.
2. Keep the Room (Sort of) Tidy
We don’t need a spotless space, but it helps to keep bags, takeaway cups, and clutter out of the main area where you’re getting dressed. I’ll usually help clear a corner if needed, but having a “stuff zone” out of frame makes it easier to get clean, classic shots.
3. Have Your Details Ready for Flat Lays
A flat lay is a styled overhead photo of your wedding day details — usually laid out neatly on a clean surface. Think of it as your wedding day “still life” — a quiet photo that ties everything together.
Here’s what to set aside (a small box or pouch works great):
For the bride:
Invitation suite (with envelopes + stamps)
Dress and veil
Rings (all three, if possible)
Shoes
Jewelry
Perfume
Hair accessories
Vow book or letters
Any meaningful keepsakes (something borrowed, old, etc.)
For the groom:
Suit/tux and tie or bowtie
Shoes
Watch, cufflinks, boutonnière
Cologne
Vow book or letter
Any heirlooms or small personal touches
Pro tip: If your florist is delivering early, ask them to bring a few loose flowers or greenery for styling. I’ll use those in the flat lay to tie your details into the look of the day.
4. Plan Time for Photos Before You Get Dressed
Aim to be mostly ready (hair and makeup done) 30–45 minutes before you need to leave. This gives us time for robe or pajama photos, putting on your dress or suit, those emotional moments with family, and some solo portraits — without feeling rushed.
Need help building out your full day timeline?
Check out this blog post: How to Create a Wedding Timeline That Works for Photos
5. Keep It Calm and Enjoy the Morning
Your prep time sets the tone for the whole day. So play your favorite music, surround yourself with people who make you feel good, and let the small stuff go. I’ll be there documenting it all quietly — the laughter, the nerves, the hugs, the happy little chaos.
Final Thoughts
Getting ready photos aren’t just the “before” shots — they’re part of the story. They show the quiet anticipation, the behind-the-scenes beauty, and the people who help you into one of the most meaningful outfits you’ll ever wear.
With a little prep (and a good playlist), this part of the day can feel just as memorable as the ceremony itself.
If you’re unsure what to bring, how much time to allow, or where to start — just ask. I’m here to help you make the most of it.
